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Laura Steckley

Location: West of Scotland

Biography
I worked in direct practice in Child and Youth Care for 11 years; the majority of that time I also supervised staff and managed units. In one center, I also developed and ran an in-house training program. I’ve worked with kids in Colorado and in Scotland; they have much in common. Practice in each country is similar yet different, and it has taken me a long time to get my head around this. I’ve worked in a positive peer culture program, a more traditional treatment program, and in care (in Scotland). Each has advantages and disadvantages.

For my undergraduate degree, I studied political science and philosophy. I also took a smattering of psychology, but it wasn’t until more recently that I realized that it was the philosophy major that equipped me the most for the work. I was fortunate enough to have the option to take a dedicated MSc (in Advanced Residential Child Care) at the University of Strathclyde, and enjoyed it so much that I started to teach on the course in 2003. I now direct the course and teach on it (and on the BA in Social Work and the MSc in Community Care), while also trying to juggle the demands of research and writing. I’ve never been good at juggling, but I keep getting opportunities to work on it.

How I came to be in this field

I thought I wanted to be a lawyer (hence the political science and philosophy). When I completed my undergraduate degree, I knew that I needed a couple of years of full time employment in order to grow up enough to manage law school. A friend helped me to get an interview at a residential treatment unit in which she was working. I swallowed the hook. It took me a while to realize this, however, as after 13 months in a crazy adolescent treatment unit, I left and ended up working as a health care coordinator for a time. It was during this time I realized that, despite the considerable demands, I missed the work at the treatment centre. More specifically, I missed the kids and the kinds of adults who want to work with them. So I decided the world didn’t need another lawyer, and I never looked back.

A favorite saying
'Truth waits for eyes unclouded by longing'. This simple, beautiful saying captures the complexity of how motivations and desires shape what is seen. I also use it to remind myself that, to a greater or lesser extent, my reality is my construct; the more I want something to be a certain way, the more that shapes what I see and how I see it.

And on a less serious note:
'A Glasgow funeral is a happier affair than an Edinburgh wedding' – told to me, of course, by a weegie (Glaswegian).

A few thoughts about child and youth care
I can’t imagine a more worthy endeavour.

This is my lovely cat, Shaw. She is a sweet old soul, and I am quite convinced that she is a little Buddha

Last thing I read, watched, heard, which I would recommend to others
Hmmm. A couple come to mind.

http://video.google.com/videosearch?q=chris+bliss&emb=0#
I like this because it’s a lovely example of one person’s unique, creative expression – he’s really coming through here. It’s quirky, and oozing with talent and joy and I like the song.

Wall and Piece by Banksy. I’d been vaguely interested in this guy and his art for some time when I came across this book on the cheap in Fopp (a music store that sells cd’s and books for low prices). I stayed up late with it, devouring each page. This is the first time an ‘art’ book had such an impact. I was so stimulated by it I still felt a buzz thinking about it on the way into work the next morning. His work crystallizes for me the important role artists (of all kinds) play in society.

There is something to do with perspective and expression in both of them that I find inspiring.

A favorite Child and Youth Care experience
I met up with a former resident from my unit about a year after he left us. He had been working and was telling me about his job and the trouble he had been having with a co-worker. He was in the kind of job where shit rolls downhill and swearing at people is generally accepted – and he was at the bottom of that hill. Given his tender age, history in care and shy nature, he was probably seen as an easy target.

I wasn’t surprised when he told me how the crew leader was consistently disrespectful and verbally abusive towards him. I was surprised, however, when he recounted telling the crew leader, “when you can speak to me with respect, I’ll be happy to hear what you have to say but I’m not going to stand and listen to you when you’re being verbally abusive and disrespectful” (or something along those lines). According to former resident, the co-worker’s jaw was hanging open and he didn’t know what to say. We had such a laugh about all of this.

All wasn’t perfect, as he was hauled into the supervisor’s office about the whole thing, but he did say the guys on the crew treated him a bit better after that, and most importantly, he retained his dignity through the whole thing.

A few thoughts for those starting out

• Patience is not weakness. It’s also a poor excuse not to act.
• Attune to what you are feeling (in the moment and generally) and explore what this has to tell you about what’s going on for you and what you might be picking up from the young person. Work hard to decipher.
• Cultivate curiosity – your own, your colleague’s and young people’s.

A recommended child and youth care reading link
https://www.cyc-net.org/cyc-online/cycol-0706-cedrick.html

My favourite child and youth care-relevant link and why
Is there any other place worth spending one’s time online if they want to read about CYC?

A writing of my own
https://www.cyc-net.org/cyc-online/cycol-0406-steckley.html

Influences on my work
My parents, Mr. Doubt (primary school P.E. teacher), Mrs. Mitchell (6th grade teacher), Mr. Spang (high school teacher), Cathy Sandquist, Jen Wallace, Fiona Sheridan, Tae Kwondo, Toni Morrison, Alice Walker, Pema Chodron, Ram Dass, The Indigo Girls, Vedran Smailovic, Fritz Redl, Mark Smith, Thom Garfat, Jim Anglin, Leon Fucher, Francis Ricks, Gerry Fewster, Jack Phelan and many, many others.