Listen to thisUrie Bronfenbrenner is frequently quoted for his idea that “every kid needs at least one adult who is crazy about him.” In this extract he develops the idea in a classic piece of writing well worth close reading by all who have anything to do with kids:
Five Critical Processes for Positive Development
Proposition 1
In order to develop – intellectually,
emotionally, socially, and morally – a child requires participation in
progressively more complex reciprocal activity, on a regular basis over an
extended period in the child's life, with one or more persons with whom the
child develops a strong, mutual, irrational, emotional attachment and who is
committed to the child's well-being and development, preferably for life.
Proposition 2
The establishment of patterns of progressive
interpersonal interaction under conditions of strong mutual attachment
enhances the young child's responsiveness to other features of the immediate
physical, social, and – in due course – symbolic environment that invite
exploration, manipulation, elaboration and imagination. Such activities, in
turn, also accelerate the child's psychological growth.
Proposition 3
The establishment and maintenance of patterns of
progressively more complex interaction and emotional attachment between
caregiver and child depend in substantial degree on the availability and
involvement of another adult, a third party who assists, encourages, spells
off, gives status to, and expresses admiration and affection for the person
caring for and engaging in joint activity with the child.
Proposition 4
The effective functioning of child-rearing
processes in the family and other child settings requires establishing
ongoing patterns of exchange of information, two-way communication, mutual
accommodation, and mutual trust between the principal settings in which
children and their parents live their lives. These settings are the home,
child-care programs, the school, and the parents' place of work.
Proposition 5
The effective functioning of child-rearing
processes in the family and other child settings requires public policies
and practices that provide place, time, stability, status, recognition,
belief systems, customs, and actions in support of child-rearing activities
not only on the part of parents, caregivers, teachers, and other
professional personnel, but also relatives, friends, neighbors, co-workers,
communities, and the major economic, social, and political institutions of
the entire society.
Bronfenbrenner notes: "I am sometimes asked up to what age do these principles apply. The answer is debatable, but I would say anytime up to the age of, say, 99."
Bronfenbrenner, U. (1990) Discovering What Families Do, in Rebuilding the Nest: A New Commitment to the American Family. Family Service America, 1990.
