Listen to thisUrie Bronfenbrenner is frequently quoted for his idea that “every kid needs at least one adult who is crazy about him.” In this extract he develops the idea in a classic piece of writing well worth close reading by all who have anything to do with kids.
Proposition 1
In order to develop – intellectuaIly, emotionally, socially, and morally – a child requires
participation in progressively more complex reciprocal activity, on a
regular basis over an extended period in the child's life, with one or more
persons with whom the child develops a strong, mutual, irrational, emotional
attachment and who is committed to the child's well-being and development,
preferably for life.
Proposition 2
The establishment of patterns of
progressive interpersonal interaction under conditions of strong mutual
attachment enhances the young child's responsiveness to other features of
the immediate physical, social, and – in due course – symbolic environment
that invite exploration, manipulation, elaboration and imagination. Such
activities, in turn, also accelerate the child's psychological growth.
Proposition 3
The establishment and maintenance of
patterns of progressively more complex interaction and emotional attachment
between caregiver and child depend in substantial degree on the availability
and involvement of another adult, a third party who assists, encourages,
spells off, gives status to, and expresses admiration and affection for the
person caring for and engaging in joint activity with the child.
Proposition 4
The effective functioning of
child-rearing processes in the family and other child settings requires
establishing ongoing patterns of exchange of information, two-way
communication, mutual accommodation, and mutual trust between the principal
settings in which children and their parents live their lives. These
settings are the home, child-care programs, the school, and the parents'
place of work.
Proposition 5
The effective functioning of child-rearing
processes in the family and other child settings requires public policies
and practices that provide place, time, stability, status, recognition,
belief systems, customs, and actions in support of child-rearing activities
not only on the part of parents, caregivers, teachers, and other
professional personnel, but also relatives, friends, neighbors, co-workers,
communities, and the major economic, social, and political institutions of
the entire society.
Bronfenbrenner notes: "I am sometimes asked up to what age do these principles apply. The answer is debatable, but I would say anytime up to the age of, say, 99."
Bronfenbrenner, U. (1990) Discovering What Families Do, in Rebuilding the Nest: A New Commitment to the American Family. Family Service America, 1990.
