
Merle Allsopp
Location:
Cape Town –
the fairest Cape of them all, and today as I write this, the Cape of
Storms!!!
Biography
I worked in a residential care setting as a child and youth
care worker for a number of years before having the opportunity to go to
America as an ILEX fellow. I remain
indebted to Herb Barnes and Jerry Beker for the experience of working in
Oregon for a year – giving me a wider purview of child and youth care
work, as well as a chance to look at the South African child and youth
care field from the outside. Upon returning to South Africa, still
shackled by apartheid, I continued working in an exciting residential
care center trying to realize a child rights approach – which was
considered commie-liberal-threat-to-the-state stuff in those days.
Joining the staff of the NACCW in the
watershed year of 1994, I have been here ever since, happy to be a part
of this organization that has adapted to the changed times in South
Africa. Now with a staff of close to 50, the organization continues to
work towards bettering child and youth care services, through a number
of innovative strategies, including mentoring developing child and youth
care projects in unserviced areas of the country through the Isibindi
model. Steering the NACCW ship is, as it was for my predecessors, more
than a full time job!
How I came to be in this field
During my final year at university I volunteered as a homework
tutor at a children’s home. I happened on one of a handful of South
African children’s homes who eschewed corporal punishment – a standard
way of keeping children in line in schools and institutions in
pre-democracy days in our country. As the country burned (it was 1980) I
found myself in a new world of 80 hurting children, and an even newer
world of thinking – so care-full, so conscious of what children are
entitled to, so mindful of the minutiae in each life. As I qualified as
a teacher then, I applied for the job of ‘assistant housemother’ at the
children’s home. So shocked was Vivien Harber (later to occupy the
position of doyenne of South African child and youth care for many
years) that someone who actually knew how taxing the job was,
would apply, that she emptied the contents of an entire cup of tea into
her lap during my interview! So this makes me, I think, one of the few
child and youth care workers who entered the field through intent and
not by accident!
A favorite saying –
“What is required of us now is a new era of responsibility, a
recognition¦that we have duties to ourselves, our nation, and the world,
duties that we do not grudgingly accept but rather seize gladly, firm in
the knowledge that there is nothing so satisfying to the spirit, so
defining of our character, than giving our all to a difficult task.”
– Barak Obama, Inauguration Speech.
A few thoughts about child and youth care
One of the things that plagues our South African struggle for
the recognition of child and youth care as a profession, is that good
child and youth care looks so easy to the untrained eye. Witnessing good
child and youth care is like looking at art – you can go only as deep as
your perception and knowledge will allow. In South Africa we are
challenged as a field to lead decision-makers to an appreciation of the
intentionality of the tone, structure, flow and texture that makes up
good practice; to move beyond seeing only outcome and not process in
child and youth care work.
I think there is a quality of spirit in child and youth care work as it is being applied in developing countries that could influence practice in more developed contexts. And linked to this, South Africa may be the country pioneering community-based child and youth care work on a larger scale and in a more conscious way than anywhere else in the world. In response to the HIV/AIDS pandemic as it has devastated our country’s families, we have come to terms with child-headed households. We are developing child and youth care workers in isolated, impoverished rural communities to work with children in their homes – I recently read a trainer’s report where some of the trainees have to walk through rivers to get to the training venue. We may have something to share with others, so we look forward to hosting the FICE 2010 International Congress next year on African soil.
NACCW staff at a staff development workshop held on Robben Island
Last thing I read, watched, heard, which I would recommend to
others
Milk – the movie, for superb acting, and an inspiring call to
activism for human rights
Standing on the Precipice edited by Gerard
Bellefeuille and Frances Ricks – for transportation to a new era of
child and youth care writing.
A favorite Child and Youth Care experience
How can one choose – there are so many, layered on one’s soul
like shellac in a French polishing process.
Hearing a seventeen-year-old boy in a child-headed household saying that the child care worker working in the family’s home “helped us dream our dreams again.”
The shy hand of a volunteer (earning $12 a month) in a class on child and youth care ethics asking if it had been wrong to buy a family bread from her own money when she saw they had nothing to eat.
The sight of children with impairments and previously confined to shacks, playing in a Safe Park with all the other children from the neighbourhood.
A few thoughts for those starting out
NEVER underestimate the power of good child and youth care work – even if it is only coming from you. Do not wait for others to work effectively before you do, however unpopular that may make you with colleagues.
Clock-watchers seldom make good child and youth care workers.
There are many amazing people in our field. Connect and network to be sure to find them, and spend as much time in their company as you can.
Talk child and youth care work over tea.
Look for organizations or projects to work in which subscribe to parallel process, knowing that we cannot expect the levels of generosity and thoughtfulness that is asked for in child and youth care work from people who are treated disrespectfully by their employers.
Opportunities in child and youth care seldom come packaged and labeled – they usually look just like hard work.
Good child and youth care services are not determined by the cost of the services. I have seen excellent programs in resource-poor organizations – and the converse of that all too many times. Never allow a lack of resources to define your practice.
Recommended Child and Youth Care reading link
https://www.cyc-net.org/cyc-online/cycol-0308-phelanguest.html
Some writing of my own
As Virginia Woolf says, one has to have “a room of one’s own”
to write – and I add: an hour of one’s own. Unlike many of my
colleagues I have the former, but many of us here in South Africa lack
the latter. We have 1.5 million orphans. This remains both
incomprehensible on an emotional level, and an imperative to action. Who
of us have the time to write? But I live in hope that we will
develop a culture of writing ¦ and in the meantime there are a few bits
and pieces on CYC-Net and in Child and Youth Care Work, the
journal of South African child and youth care practice.
Influences on my work
I am truly able to say I stand on the shoulders of giants. The
two previous directors of the NACCW are known in the developed world –
Brian Gannon and Lesley Du Toit – both of whom have contributed to my
work and that of many of my colleagues. In sharing their extraordinary
capacities and energies to laying an institutional foundation for
networking child and youth care workers through the NACCW, they have
left a legacy that will outlast individual memories of their
inspirational leadership.
I am fortunate to work in a team of people who daily inspire me, and I am mindful of my great privilege in working with all in the NACCW. Colleague Zeni Thumbadoo, provides constant impetus to think beyond the bounds of what is possible! And I am regularly humbled to a place of inarticulateness by the dedication and spirit of South African child and youth care workers.
Anything else
See you in Cape Town on December 7th 2010 for the FICE
International Congress for lively deliberation on the theme "Celebrating
the Courage to Care in a Diverse World" – and for good food, beautiful
sights, innovative program visits, dancing, sunshine – and a taste of
the African spirit of ubuntu.