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NO 1822

Adolescence and adult fears

Teachers in adolescent units are often greeted with gasps of amazement and admiration when they reveal how they earn their living. Parents of adolescents immediately start relating tales of the perceived unreasonable behaviour of their own adolescent off-spring yet few adults seem to remember their own adolescence with any degree of accuracy.

The response of older people makes it evident how threatening even small groups of adolescents can seem. Part of this is caused by the noise of the loud, unmodulated, newly adult voices of the boys, the shrieks of the girls and the almost inevitable 'music machine' that will be present. Adolescents often have an uncontrolled gait, and are not always enough in control of their rapidly lengthening limbs to avoid some involuntary conflict with passers-by. Because at my unit we shared a common entrance gate with the ambulant members of a Senior Citizens Day Centre, I tried to help my pupils to understand how they appear to the frail and the elderly, especially those who have read the popular press.

Because our playground is used as a five-a-side football pitch in the evening, it is surrounded by a 10-foot fence. So that equipment may be left out overnight the doors to the 'cage' have heavy padlocks on them; it is also equipped with floodlighting. The purpose of the fencing and floodlighting was obviously misunderstood by neighbours who, having lost their petition against our occupation of the premises, watched us move in with concerned interest. At lunch-time on the first day I received an amused call from the education offices. One of our neighbours had rung to say that a gate had been left unlocked and he had seen 'two of the delinquents escape!' Fortunately they had been reassured by the office, but there has always been a certain nervousness.
On another occasion, during a long, hot summer, our boys were delighted to espy a neighbour sunbathing in the nude. They spotted her when they went to retrieve a tennis ball that had strayed over the playground fence and into our car park. It appears that when they bent to retrieve the ball near the hedge where it had come to a halt, they were rewarded with an unexpected eyeful. Obviously this was too good to waste and before I knew what was happening all the boys were sharing the welcome bonus. Since they were still on the unit's territory and on the other side of the lady's fence, there was no question of trespass (except by the eyes). Nevertheless the neighbour reported our boys to the office as perverts who were totally out of control. There was no concession to the fact that it might not be wise to sunbathe in the raw, in a tiny suburban garden, less then ten metres from a school for adolescents, let alone those presenting behaviour problems.

Another time I received enquiries about why a police car had been on our site. I was mystified since we had had a quiet afternoon with no visits from the police. It later transpired that two elderly gentlemen at the Day Centre had been involved in a disagreement about a game of cards and had set about each other with their walking sticks prompting the manager to call the police. When I related the story to our youngsters they were very amused and viewed our elderly neighbours with increased respect!

In many ways the head of a unit takes on many of the roles of a caring parent during the day. On the rare occasions that confrontations between pupils, or between pupil and teacher occur, they are conducted in front of a suspicious and prejudiced audience from the surrounding semis and other local authority centres. The car park is used by all departments and we share the site with not only a Day Centre for the elderly, but also one for the mentally handicapped, plus a day nursery, and units for Adult Literacy, home tuition and occupational therapy. Raised voices in our playground have the same effect as the shout of 'there's a fight' during a school playtime. Spectators suddenly appear.

I have to demonstrate that I am in control. I do this best by trying to elicit information about the dispute from other pupils. If this is done quietly enough everyone else has to be quiet so that they know what is going on. By using this strategy the noise level is usually reduced and I am able to say to one or the other of the individuals involved, or occasionally both, that I can understand the anger. If it seems agreed that an injustice has been done I will offer to sort it out myself. If tempers are very frayed I might have to send a pupil home until the next day, but, to be fair, I must make sure I send home the one who has started it, not necessarily the one who is making most noise. It is better if, as often happens, all three of our staff work together, so that two talk to each of the protagonists individually and the third teacher occupies and listens to those not involved. The important thing is that something is seen to be done, the reason for the dispute is seen to be addressed, and the business is finished during that session. If a fight is simply stopped and the pupils corralled whilst still angry, no work is achieved and the trouble starts again outside the unit at the end of the day, thereby fulfilling the neighbours' expectations of 'that kind of teenager'.

Perhaps I am lucky. I have never been hit or caught in the cross-fire in 12 and a half years in this situation. I have only twice been aware of a pupil being in possession of an offensive weapon. In both cases these were girls who were swiftly disarmed, and their parents were called in. I think it is important that pupils realise that we are very vigilant and aware of the possibility of weapons; but more important is the knowledge that there are strong adults in control, who apply a known set of principles and procedures to every situation.

JANE LOVEY

Lovey, J. (1992). Teaching Troubled and Troubling Adolescents. London: David Fulton Publishrs. pp.7—9



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