Discussing and resolving differences is always an interesting aspect of Child and Youth Care work. (Strictly between you and me, how do you feel about this month's subject?)
Viewpoint 1 : Absolute confidentiality
		I am always irritated when people within the Youth Service talk 
		about confidentiality as 'an issue'. What they mean by this is that they 
		are prepared to consider betraying the trust of a young person for the 
		sake of professional practice. For me, confidentiality has to be the 
		cornerstone of youth counselling; we must take young people seriously 
		and respect them as individuals in their own right.
Listen 
		To do this effectively we need to be able to listen properly to what 
		they are saying. Too often we hear young people, but do not listen to 
		them. We really hear only ourselves, complete with our own prejudices 
		and experiences. We are all urged to develop our listening skills, but 
		this often involves simply giving the young person the impression that 
		we are listening. Schools, social services and youth agencies all seem 
		to operate standard procedures for dealing with problems rather than 
		listening to young peeple. The result is that they get shunted from one 
		agency to another, which can be quite disturbing for someone who is 
		already worried or upset.
Once workers get past the hurdle of proper listening, the importance of confidentiality becomes more obvious. I work at Open Door, a counselling and support service for people under 25. Like the Samaritans, we operate a policy of complete confidence. Our publicity states: “Under no circumstances may we inform parents, schools, police, social services, probation officers or any other agency or individual about what we have discussed, unless you ask us to." The last part of that sentence is not a loophole; we genuinely believe we have no right to betray the trust of young people, or to twist their arms because of what we feel is right for them.
Controversy 
		Because of this policy Open Door has caused a considerable amount of 
		controversy. Many's the time we have had to sit at meetings with 
		representatives of other agencies who are up in arms about our total 
		confidentiality. Their attitude is that if young people are at risk, 
		then the professionals ought to be involved. They do not seem to 
		consider that some young people are uncertain whether or not to tell 
		anyone at all about a particular problem, and ifwe did not exist then 
		they probably would keep silent. For those people we are the bottom 
		line. They may eventually choose to go to the police or to social 
		services, but that is their choice. The important thing about agencies 
		like ours is that we act as a catch net for young people who are so 
		distressed and confused that they don't know what to do. For this 
		reason, the ability to listen rather than just hear is paramount; as, of 
		course, is full confidentiality. It is up to the young per son to choose 
		what kind of action to take, and it may be that the chosen action is to 
		do nothing. Where this is the case, we support it as a positive decision 
		and are available if the young person wants to consider other 
		possibilities at a later date. Without proper listening, and without 
		total confidentiality, we feel that it is impossible to show true 
		respect for young people.
(From a contributor to Youth in Society)
		
		Viewpoint 2: “Need to know" basis
		Confidentiality is not a principle in itself; it is part of a set of 
		wider principles which guide the process of helping a person in 
		difficulties through a trusting relationship. Confidentiality should 
		serve this relationship and the helping process. A counsellor in a 
		trusting relationship would never wish to hurt, prejudice, betray or 
		harm a youngster in any way “would never put the young person at 
		unnecessary risk, would never propose or implement a treatment programme 
		which was inappropriate “either developmentally or clinically, would 
		never 'take over' the youngster's life by making all of the choices and 
		decisions. The counsellor would respect the young person's preferences, 
		strengths and cultural values “and certainly respect the youngster's 
		right to privacy regarding the problems which gave rise to the 
		relationship, the family, progress of treatment, etc. These things are 
		all part of a professional relationship. But ... when it comes to the 
		helping process itself, there are some considerations which demand 
		further thought.
The team
		Where there is a multidisciplinary team in a helping agency, 
		there is added value in sharing information with those who are working 
		directly with the youngster. In such a case, applying confidentiality 
		too literally, for example by restricting its definition to include only 
		counsellor and client, may render information useless. This is not to 
		say that information should be shared automatically with all members of 
		a team, or even with the head of the agency. Hoghughi (1992: 16) 
		suggests that “need to know" is a good principle for determining the 
		extent of confidentiality.
Supervision
		It is usually the agency itself which is accountable for 
		the helping services offered, and the agency builds certain “safety 
		nets" into its staff system. One of these is supervision, whereby line 
		workers consult regularly with another staff member. In such a case the 
		supervisor is seen as an extension of the line worker's own skills, 
		resources and responsibility. When a worker does not have the precise 
		training or experience to handle a problem presented by a particular 
		youngster, it is in nobody's interests for that worker to carry a 
		responsibility alone. The agency shares this responsibility.
Grave danger
		Another widely accepted condition under which confidential 
		information may be shared is when a worker has reason to believe that a 
		youngster or someone related is in palpable danger “the young person 
		threatened seriously to harm another or to commit suicide. Awareness and 
		vigilance on the part of others at such a time is the least 
		responsibility an agency can demonstrate. (Not the same as the “excuses" 
		some staff offer for their indiscretions, such as that information was 
		shared “for the youngster's own good".)
Permission
		A counsellor is often well advised to admit to a client any 
		inadequacy in skill or information about a problem area, and to ask 
		permission to consult more widely. “I will need to get more information 
		about this. Is it OK with you if I ask Mrs Smith about it?" We should 
		understand the young person's own expectations of confidentiality: he or 
		she may really want us to keep certain information from a certain 
		authority figure or a parent, but would have no hesitation about “in-house" consultation.
Basic ethic  
		These exceptions apply to specific circumstances, and do not in any way 
		undermine the basic ethic of confidentiality as stated elsewhere by 
		Hoghughi (1988:13): “A central plank of the orthodoxy of all helping 
		professions is that the relationship between the therapist and the child 
		(and his parents) is confidential and that information gained through it 
		is sacrosanct and may not be freely communicated to other 
		professionals.” However, blanket ideas of confidentiality applied too 
		dogmatically, can simply prove a point at the ultimate expense of the 
		youngster.
		
References
Hoghughi, M. (1988) Treating Problem Children: Issues, Methods and Practice. London: Sage
Hoghughi, M. (1992) Assessing Child and Adolescent Disorders. London: Sage