Discussing and resolving differences is always an interesting aspect of Child and Youth Care work. (Strictly between you and me, how do you feel about this month's subject?)
Viewpoint 1 : Absolute confidentiality
I am always irritated when people within the Youth Service talk
about confidentiality as 'an issue'. What they mean by this is that they
are prepared to consider betraying the trust of a young person for the
sake of professional practice. For me, confidentiality has to be the
cornerstone of youth counselling; we must take young people seriously
and respect them as individuals in their own right.
Listen
To do this effectively we need to be able to listen properly to what
they are saying. Too often we hear young people, but do not listen to
them. We really hear only ourselves, complete with our own prejudices
and experiences. We are all urged to develop our listening skills, but
this often involves simply giving the young person the impression that
we are listening. Schools, social services and youth agencies all seem
to operate standard procedures for dealing with problems rather than
listening to young peeple. The result is that they get shunted from one
agency to another, which can be quite disturbing for someone who is
already worried or upset.
Once workers get past the hurdle of proper listening, the importance of confidentiality becomes more obvious. I work at Open Door, a counselling and support service for people under 25. Like the Samaritans, we operate a policy of complete confidence. Our publicity states: “Under no circumstances may we inform parents, schools, police, social services, probation officers or any other agency or individual about what we have discussed, unless you ask us to." The last part of that sentence is not a loophole; we genuinely believe we have no right to betray the trust of young people, or to twist their arms because of what we feel is right for them.
Controversy
Because of this policy Open Door has caused a considerable amount of
controversy. Many's the time we have had to sit at meetings with
representatives of other agencies who are up in arms about our total
confidentiality. Their attitude is that if young people are at risk,
then the professionals ought to be involved. They do not seem to
consider that some young people are uncertain whether or not to tell
anyone at all about a particular problem, and ifwe did not exist then
they probably would keep silent. For those people we are the bottom
line. They may eventually choose to go to the police or to social
services, but that is their choice. The important thing about agencies
like ours is that we act as a catch net for young people who are so
distressed and confused that they don't know what to do. For this
reason, the ability to listen rather than just hear is paramount; as, of
course, is full confidentiality. It is up to the young per son to choose
what kind of action to take, and it may be that the chosen action is to
do nothing. Where this is the case, we support it as a positive decision
and are available if the young person wants to consider other
possibilities at a later date. Without proper listening, and without
total confidentiality, we feel that it is impossible to show true
respect for young people.
(From a contributor to Youth in Society)
Viewpoint 2: “Need to know" basis
Confidentiality is not a principle in itself; it is part of a set of
wider principles which guide the process of helping a person in
difficulties through a trusting relationship. Confidentiality should
serve this relationship and the helping process. A counsellor in a
trusting relationship would never wish to hurt, prejudice, betray or
harm a youngster in any way “would never put the young person at
unnecessary risk, would never propose or implement a treatment programme
which was inappropriate “either developmentally or clinically, would
never 'take over' the youngster's life by making all of the choices and
decisions. The counsellor would respect the young person's preferences,
strengths and cultural values “and certainly respect the youngster's
right to privacy regarding the problems which gave rise to the
relationship, the family, progress of treatment, etc. These things are
all part of a professional relationship. But ... when it comes to the
helping process itself, there are some considerations which demand
further thought.
The team
Where there is a multidisciplinary team in a helping agency,
there is added value in sharing information with those who are working
directly with the youngster. In such a case, applying confidentiality
too literally, for example by restricting its definition to include only
counsellor and client, may render information useless. This is not to
say that information should be shared automatically with all members of
a team, or even with the head of the agency. Hoghughi (1992: 16)
suggests that “need to know" is a good principle for determining the
extent of confidentiality.
Supervision
It is usually the agency itself which is accountable for
the helping services offered, and the agency builds certain “safety
nets" into its staff system. One of these is supervision, whereby line
workers consult regularly with another staff member. In such a case the
supervisor is seen as an extension of the line worker's own skills,
resources and responsibility. When a worker does not have the precise
training or experience to handle a problem presented by a particular
youngster, it is in nobody's interests for that worker to carry a
responsibility alone. The agency shares this responsibility.
Grave danger
Another widely accepted condition under which confidential
information may be shared is when a worker has reason to believe that a
youngster or someone related is in palpable danger “the young person
threatened seriously to harm another or to commit suicide. Awareness and
vigilance on the part of others at such a time is the least
responsibility an agency can demonstrate. (Not the same as the “excuses"
some staff offer for their indiscretions, such as that information was
shared “for the youngster's own good".)
Permission
A counsellor is often well advised to admit to a client any
inadequacy in skill or information about a problem area, and to ask
permission to consult more widely. “I will need to get more information
about this. Is it OK with you if I ask Mrs Smith about it?" We should
understand the young person's own expectations of confidentiality: he or
she may really want us to keep certain information from a certain
authority figure or a parent, but would have no hesitation about “in-house" consultation.
Basic ethic
These exceptions apply to specific circumstances, and do not in any way
undermine the basic ethic of confidentiality as stated elsewhere by
Hoghughi (1988:13): “A central plank of the orthodoxy of all helping
professions is that the relationship between the therapist and the child
(and his parents) is confidential and that information gained through it
is sacrosanct and may not be freely communicated to other
professionals.” However, blanket ideas of confidentiality applied too
dogmatically, can simply prove a point at the ultimate expense of the
youngster.
References
Hoghughi, M. (1988) Treating Problem Children: Issues, Methods and Practice. London: Sage
Hoghughi, M. (1992) Assessing Child and Adolescent Disorders. London: Sage